I don’t usually swear gratuitously in writing. Lest I continue sputtering uselessly, I will shut up, and refer you to a short post by Xtina, who curses much more to-the-point than I.
When is this goddamn administration going to stop telling me what to do with my body, my interpersonal relationships, my life?!
The greatest principle of all is that nobody, whether male or female, should be without a leader. Nor should the mind of anybody be habituated to letting him do anything at all on his own initiative; neither out of zeal, nor even playfully. But in war and in the midst of peace- to his leader he shall direct his eye and follow him faithfully. And even in the smallest matter he should stand under leadership. For example, he should get up, or move, or wash, or take his meals… only if he has been told to do so. In a word, he should teach his soul, by long habit, never to dream of acting independently, and to become utterly incapable of it.
-Plato, quoted by Karl Popper in the introduction to The Open Society And Its Enemies